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Here's Lookin at Ya!
Posted:Jun 24, 2020 8:31 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2020 8:57 am

"Newly single, athletic and active.. not wanting a commitment at this time" guessed it. This is actually on a guys profile. It's the only thing it says on there...but I think it speaks mountains. There's really no other way to put it...but...I'm gonna try. ( I'll try not to use any big words this time...maybe that'll help). goes. WHO IN THEIR RIGHT MIND, FOR ALL THAT IS HOLY, IS LOOKING FOR A COMMITMENT WITH SOMEONE ON A SEX SITE????? (I think this would be a good time for you to invest in a dictionary...and your first word of the day would be...COMMITMENT!!!) You guys insist upon giving me ammo...and're even loading the gun!!! What the fuck are you thinking? And...more importantly...why? Do you really believe you will find the "love of your life" on a sex site?? Please...I need answers!! He's not wanting a commitment at this hoo...did somebody hurt your feelings?? Did a big, bad woman make you cry?? Look, if you really just want sex...then you're in the right place. I'm sure you can find a chick who won't mind bumping uglies with you. Someone you can take your sexual frustrations out on and who's real and won't blow you off before you're first meet!.( Good luck with that). If you're really looking for a commitment...go buy a mirror. Enough said...
Walk This Way!
Posted:Jun 8, 2020 3:07 pm
Last Updated:Jun 22, 2020 7:38 pm

Ok!! I have had about enough with this bullshit!!! Can somebody please tell me WHEN was it EVER ok for men to start calling women SLUTS???? Who was the fucking peckerhead who started this shit??? And more importantly...why are women allowing themselves to be degraded by guys? When was it ever ok for guys to treat women inferiorly?? (Maybe this was acceptable back in the 50's...but this is 2020! Get with the program dickwads!!) But lets face it...this seems to be your MO on this site... since the majority of you guys generally cower behind your typed words anyway! I'm not so sure about that pen being mightier than the sword anymore...that's for sure! (BTW... this is exactly the reason why I use the term "guys" when referring to you on this site because clearly there are no REAL MEN to be found on here!). You don't even know us...and again...just because we're on a sex site doesn't mean you should assume that we have sex with just anyone!! Yet, you seem to think it is perfectly fine to give us this derogatory title!!! And I'm not even talking about guys that I have spoken with who have just casually mentioned that word during a conversation. I'm talking about guys actually using this word in their intro to describe what he's looking for...and...not jokingly....he is really meaning that's what women are!! (Let me guess...the headline for his personal ad says "CALLING ALL SLUTS"). What a fucking charmer. Why can't he just say...a woman with a high sex drive or a woman who loves hot sex...etc.? Who the fuck raised you assholes to think that it's acceptable to treat women like objects??? Especially in light of the fact that you are no better...and you know it. It's a fact...more men cheat on women than women cheat on tend to have MORE sexual partners than women. ( Get the picture Einstein?) Maybe we should just start calling you fuck-boys. Even better...maybe we should just start treating you like sayyyy...a walking dildo!!!
A For Effort!
Posted:Jun 7, 2020 8:50 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2020 8:57 am

Soooo.....I get a message today from a guy that simply says, " Hi, How are you doing?". Hmm...I'm thinking...sounds nice enough...'s actually a pleasant change from the usual..."I want to bend you over and....") get the idea. Anyway, I decide to answer him back, "Hi, I'm r u?". In the meantime ...I figured I better check out his profile....aaannddd....we're off! His profile states he's from MT(Montana) and he's 44yrs. old. And this is what he says..."I'm looking for an honest woman who is ready for a serious relationship and ready to settle someone is loving, caring, faithful, trustworthy, serious and someone who is ready to settle down with me." His ideal person is "caring, honest, faithful and trustworthy" His status says" have a huge heart and would love to give it out someday to a wonderful person, who is caring, sweet, sincere, honest, trustful, spritual." When I finally finished laughing and composed myself...i decided to write this blog... and the only question I have is...IS SOMEBODY GONNA TELL THIS GUY HE'S ON A SEX SITE...OR DO I HAVE TO DO IT??? His whole intro was a mine field of red flags! And really?? Does he not see the pics and little videos posted on this site??'s not a game of leap frog that everyone's playing!! I have to's actually pretty funny. And, I will give him A for effort. ( Bless his little heart for giving it that old college try!). I mean...we all know he's fake...but I can still have a little fun with it. You and i both know he was a sitting duck and I just had to do it. Anyway, whether it's scammers or the actual site itself...I think it's time to either start using a dictionary...or...maybe they should try Farmer's Only dot com!!!
Two Can Play That Game
Posted:May 19, 2020 9:03 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2020 8:57 am

So, clearly I get alot of men readers for my blog because...lets face it...thats who I talk to the most on here. But, I think its about time I wrote something geared more towards the women...specifically...married or attached women. Unfortunately...the women I'm speaking about... or to...are probably not on this never know. goes. Ladies...I have a question for you...WHY WON'T YOU HAVE SEX WITH YOUR HUSBANDS/BOYFRIENDS???? Do you not understand that sex is part of a relationship?? I'm not saying it's the ONLY aspect of a is a very important component. It's what you sign up for when you agree to become part of a couple. And the's full steam ahead. But, then, something changes. I mean...I get it. You have both obligations...yada...yada...yada. You're tired, or...some of you develop "medical problems" and you just can't have sex anymore. ( Trust me...I hear this excuse more than I care to admit from the guys on here...just sayin.) I am not judging,( that's not how i roll), I am, however, wondering if any of this is actually true. I'm just asking why the sex part of your supposed "loving" relationship with your guy is the first thing that disappears? I do love him...right? Why are you not showing him? We all need human interaction...especially if you're in a relationship. It really is a healthy part of your relationship...and one that needs attention. I know what you're thinking...the , the bills, work..blah, blah, blah! I been there...done that! I know! But, when you truly love will make the time to show them. ( And I'm not talking about..." well, i make dinner every night...I do his laundry...I clean the house...I take care of the ".
Again...BLAH,BLAH,BLAH!! So...let me explain what happens when you don't have sex with them. HE FINDS SOMEONE ELSE ON HERE TO HAVE SEX WITH!!! It's that simple!! You leave him no choice but to seek affection elsewhere...and this...being a sex where he finds it! I chat with married and attached guys ALL the time! They all say the same thing...and I quote..." she's not interested in sex anymore. She says she's tired." That is a lame excuse and you should be ashamed of yourselves for treating your significant others that way. Don't get me wrong...I know some of you have legitimate medical reasons, ( some of the guys on here really stick up for you on that one), but, let's face it, we all know who's really being truthful and who's not. And you know who you are too. And just so you know ladies...I told the guys that if she wasn't having sex with you...she wasn't having it alone...again...just sayin.
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Love For Rent!
Posted:May 16, 2020 8:17 pm
Last Updated:May 20, 2020 7:20 pm

What is it with guys and threesomes?? Specifically, husbands who want watch some stranger fuck his wife? WHY!!!??? Are you sooo insecure that you need another guy "get the job done" because you can't satisfy her? go and find her a handsome, hung, muscle head satisfy her carnal cravings. You claim you're doing this for her. Well, aren't you the bestest husband in the world! That you would suffer in silence, ( and by that I mean...jerk off), while watching your wife get jack hammered by another guy! What a sport!! Except we know, that you're acually doing this for you...not her!! We know you just love sitting right there...sometimes even taking pics...or just watching. It turns you !! I re-iterate...WHY??? And what about this other guy? What's his story? Is he so self-centered that he needs some strange guy sitting the sidelines cheering him while he pounds his wife like a piece of veal? You think that highly of it just the opposite? Is your ego that sick and twisted that you actually need a literal pat the back make you feel better about yourself. Maybe a standing ovation and a bravo before they send you packing. SMH!! Get over yourselves! Real men protect their women, not rent them out like a u-haul truck at Home Depot!! Be a man and take care of your wife! Stop renting her out like a fucking piece of machinery...because you never day...the rental may become a purchase.
Posted:May 9, 2020 9:51 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2020 8:57 am

Here we go! This has been a gender debate for decades...and continues to be. I know what you're thinking, ( as usual), everyone is entitled to their own opinion about it, and, that's certainly doesn't help when society exacerbates the issue. What i mean by that is...yes...they make it too easy for people to "stray". If you haven't figured out what I'm talking about yet...I'll just say it...MONOGAMY!! Yup...I said it! ( I think I just heard a collective GASP!). I guess one could define it as "having the same dish on the menu every night". Some people can't even commit to a phone company or internet plan. ( I can see how being monogamous could be problematic for you.) Then again, having too many choices could just confuse you poor little devils. I mean, take Starbucks for instance. Have you ever looked at a Starbucks menu? Caffe latte, dolce latte, espresso macchiato, caffe mocha, blonde macchiato, blonde espresso!! Really?? WTF? I think Starbucks hates women! LOL Yet...why is it...when a guy walks into a Starbucks, he knows exactly what he wants, and, it's the same thing EVERY day! But, when it comes to the plethora of single women walking this earth, his mind goes blank! I mean...we're just like a Starbucks menu...short, blonde, tall, espresso...big boobs, big ass, small boobs, small ass. What's the difference? Clearly, today's society makes it almost impossible to decide anything,( least for men)...let alone if you want the same person for eternity! You just can't give guys that many choices...they'll pop an artery if they have to think that hard. Then where would we be? Alone and happy...with no one to take out the garbage. LOL
Table For Two??
Posted:May 2, 2020 9:05 pm
Last Updated:May 3, 2020 9:02 am

OK!! Come guys!!! My last blog posed the question..".How many of you guys are having sex with your wives/partners since lockdown"? I had 12 views, ( according this site...yea..I we really trust anything this site? ), and, I only got ONE comment/answer from a guy stating that he and his wife are actually having more sex!!!! I think thats great! I've been trying tell you guys all along...women love sex too!! And again... if they ain't havin sex with you...they ain't havin it alone!! ( Catch my drift?). Inquiring minds want to know! But, I guess that explains the messages I'm still getting...although I believe they are mostly single guys who have every reason to feel lonely right now. And, for those of you who are attached... is no news...good news? Will you be changing your status to couple or single? LOL. Well, we're gonna be down for awhile there's still time! Am I gonna be hearing music and corks popping...or screams and sirens?? I know what you're gonna say..."but I try and she has no interest or tells me I'm crazy"! Then, you're just not going about it the right way. Change your approach..and don't be selfish. Think about her needs...and you'll get yours. ( And I'm not just talking about sexual needs). Think you can handle that? You may be pleasantly surprised! (Just don't piss her off!!) LOL
Sex or Bust!!
Posted:Apr 21, 2020 9:53 pm
Last Updated:Sep 29, 2020 8:57 am

Just out of many married/attached guys are actually having sex with their significant others since lockdown?? Or...are you wondering where to bury the body?? Is this where we separate the men from the boys? Are you're true colors shining thru...or...have you raised the white flag? I think this is a great time for all of you to consider the reasons why you got married or chose your significant other in the first place. ( If it was for the sex and you're not getting any now... I think it's time to raise that white flag!) Every divorce attorney is gonna have a field day when this is over. Anyway, what I should be seeing is alot of "deactivated" accounts...or...alot of "new" members, but, I'm not seeing either. what's goin on? You guys still can't decide...or...are you about to change your profile to "couple" looking for...? Or...are you finally taking care of that "honey-do" list that she gave you 6 months ago?!! Can't pull that "I'll do that when I have time" excuse...because you got all the time in the world now!!! ( Aren't you glad you saved that stuff for a rainy day...just like you told her!!) Maybe...she'll reward you with sex!! I honestly hope that isn't the case. I like to think, that sex isn't being used that way...because in shouldn't be conditional. But, we both know, that the second your wife says..."We'll have sex tonight if"...home depot would be dropping off paint and supplies at your house faster than a fart in the wind. Hmmm... maybe you just need a laxative?
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Food for Thought?
Posted:Mar 29, 2020 6:47 pm
Last Updated:Apr 21, 2020 6:58 pm

So, I'm scrolling thru the site tonight and I come across this guy's profile:
( " I'm usually a busy person & time off is precious. Looking for casual dating for now but if our chemistry works out for the best, I'm open for a serious relationship. I am easy going & down to earth and a happy person for the most part that needs his fun. Spontaneous day trips, easy going date night or long weekends going somewhere are what drives me. I am a affectionate person & am not afraid to get creative or change things . Don't be afraid tell how, when or where....communication is key 😉").
Along with 2 pictures of himself...and get this...both with clothes on!!! Could it actually be a real person who's looking for a real relationship?? Maybe someone should put him out of his misery and tell him he's barking the wrong tree!!! ( Poor guy...just tugs at my heartstrings!) I can he not know? Does he think the men and women in the little videos are playing leap frog? (Although I have say...he is exactly what I would want...but...I'm pretty sure he just has a great marketing team behind him.) Is this the new way of catching women now?? If it're just going confuse the hell out of us!!! I'm tempted message him and find out...but...I think part of me would really be disappointed if he turns out be like the others...he's just better at the catching part. But...if he turns out be true his profile...then he definitely doesn't belong on this site!!! The women will just eat him for breakfast. (Which is fine with me...just as long as i can have him for lunch and dinner! Tempting!! LO.
Of Mouse and Men...
Posted:Mar 27, 2020 11:03 pm
Last Updated:Mar 31, 2020 7:00 pm

Aaaannnddd...another one bites the dust!!! Once leave shaking my fucking head!! What is it going take get thru you?? We're really not that hard understand!! We pretty much spell everything out for you...tell you straight out what we want and either choose ignore us...or.. you're just plain stupid!! I can't decide!! Really...I'm torn!! We give you every opportunity...and sometimes two...yet you still fuck up!! I have to ask it a bad connection somewhere upstairs?? If I whisper in your ear...will it echo?? Please...somebody...just put me out of my misery. I have given guys soooo many chances. Listened to sooo much bullshit...and still gave them chance after chance!! ( I know what your thinking... how stupid could I be?) But...the fact is..I still have a glimmer of hope in humanity, because every now and then...if we look hard enough...we can see it. It comes when we least expect it...which in my opinion...should be now! Especially in light of what our society is facing...being unselfish, considerate and respectful to each other should be paramount. Don't get me wrong...I totally understand the dire situation WE are all facing right now. And WE are all trying to figure this out. But...that's the thing...WE are all in the same boat! I have been trying to instill this mindset into you guys for months now. Stop making excuses...cause you know what...right now...there aren't any. Take time to stop and smell the roses. Because now you have the time. But...they STILL don't get it!! guessed it..." I was working". ( The oldie but goodie....hasn't failed me yet.) Too busy to take one minute to text me hi...just like YOU said you would! Yup....that one simple text could have sealed the deal for were too busy "working your ass off". OOHHH... I'm sooo sorry!!! I'll just sit here and patiently wait for YOU!! So whenever YOUR just give me a call and I'll come a runnin with bells on...or not!!! If thats what you're have a better chance of growing a third nut! Here's the best part...when I give him the "what for" and proceed to tell him to stop being selfish...again...he does exactly what every other guy has done. guessed it again...he ignores me like the coward that he is. Doesn't even have the decency to apologize. These are the guys the women on here have to deal with...every time we log on.( Lucky us.) Are we dealing with men....or mice? Maybe I just need to build myself a better mouse trap!!
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Stop and Smell the Roses!
Posted:Mar 23, 2020 9:49 pm
Last Updated:Mar 25, 2020 6:13 pm

Look...we've only been locked down for less than a week...and you guys are already forgetting your social skills??? Come on!!! I know the majority of you have the attention span of a flea...but's not that hard to hold a decent it??? Maybe you should take this time to possibly learn a thing or two...maybe even about women? Something i've been trying to drill into your oversized egos this whole time!! ( Oh...i'm sorry...I mean pea sized brains! Ooops!...wrong Needless to guys are really trying my patience. I's like trying to keep a hat on cat!! You just won't stay still!!! But, maybe this virus is just what you need to stop and pay attention. Listen, learn and remember. How many times did you forego having fun with me because you had to "work"...or "run errands"...or "cut the grass"? Are you maybe regretting that...just a little...right now? We could have been quarantined together...imagine that!!! Nothing but sex allll day!!! ( I can see how that would be a turn-off to you guys though..."sigh".) were too busy. You were needed at work. ( Are you needed now?) I think it's time to re-evaluate your lives. Maybe we all should. Stop taking people and things for granted...because some today...they may not be just sitting around waiting for you when YOU want now. Maybe now's a good time to stop and smell the roses...or better yet... plant some? Remember...mother nature is a woman...and women love flowers!
I Rest My Case!!
Posted:Mar 5, 2020 9:56 pm
Last Updated:Apr 27, 2020 8:46 pm

;Do you( want to come over and suck me off?" Really???? What happened to.." are you doing tonight?" Come on guys!!! Did I not teach you anything?? I swear...the selfishness and narcissism are still running rampant and trust me...neither will get you a date with a chick!! It will...however...get you ANOTHER date with your couch and left hand!! Stop with the fucking nonsense! Again...we're not gonna jump up and rush over to give YOU a blow job!!! Get real!!(You have a better chance of winning the lottery.) Needless to say...I didn't answer this asshole...nor will I answer any others who's initial contact with me is just as stupid and moronic! I'm sure there are some girls on here who don't mind the bullshit and may even fulfill your requests...but actually finding another story. ( Good luck with that.) Does it really matter that we are on a sex site? Is that reason enough to act like idiots with no moral values? Is that how you were raised...or is it because your gf's or wives emasculate you feel the need to take it out on some stranger on a sex site...who actually here for the same reason as you!! Again...good luck finding a real woman who actually looks like her pics...(btw...I'm pics are recent...just sayin.). In the better start brushing up on your openers...or they'll end up being your closing remarks instead!!!
The Hand-y Man Can!
Posted:Feb 28, 2020 11:49 pm
Last Updated:Mar 30, 2020 7:31 pm

I swear...every night I come on here thinking it can't get any worse...then..bam...what do you know...another fucking loser enters the ring!!! What is wrong with you guys???? If you can just stop being selfish narcissists for a may actually get what you want!!! Why is that so hard to comprehend??? Again...I KNOW this is a sex site...and i THOUGHT you wanted sex...but...apparently your idea of sex involves a couch, a tv and your left hand!!! ( Silly me to think it might actually be a woman!!) What's the problem? Is it our bodies? Our hair? Our tits? Our ass? Or worse...our pussies??? Do you need another birds and bees talk? Oh wait...I think we may get attached...or be disappointed with your "performance". Well...I got news for you...women know how to have meaningless sex too. ( After all, most of you married guys on here already know that...because your wives are doing exactly that...just not with you.) Either get with the program...or...stock up on lotion!! Just a dick in the hand worth 2 in a bush??

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