Good morning and happy Valentine's day. I'm 42 and am seeking something more serious but have come to the conclusion that I'll just have to be patient. I'm nearly fed up with the obstacles. At first you wouldn't think it couldn't possibly be so difficult right? I mean there have to be tons of single folks that would enjoy finding someone to share their time and build a life with. The problems are many. For one, I find women that I might be attracted to but they tend to live in larger cities and really have no desire to move to rural southern Oregon. When I find a more local woman, I'm sorry to report that they have usually really let themselves go. Depression, addiction, poor hygiene, baby daddy drama of all sorts, general lack of passion and drive, you get the idea but the bottom line is I'm not attracted to that mess. I am asking for a miracle. I want a woman that I find attractive physically and in every other way. That means she has to have passion and drive in her life. A spark! I am a tough one to match because I'm not into "normal stuff" I'm into aviation, flying, teaching, designing and building things,the entrepreneurial spirit runs deep in me. I'd like to share my life with that special per who get's it and loves to be a companion in this lifestyle.

My Ideal Person She's hot and yet she's still down to earth and generally wonderful. She is tired of vanilla sex and wants something with a little flavor to it!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Fisting, Massage, zensex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

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