Hi everyone, first timer here and very sceptical. Looking for some fun with a capital F and probably a little guidance. Newly out of a long term relationship and starting to find what i've been missing. Anyone out there care to help and show me? [COLOR red]UPDATE!!! Hi guys well i feel i have to add this little bit through desperation. I am a genuine per who is looking for real world communication and meets with real people. I am not interested in paying for sex, or paying membership to another site to "view your real pictures". I don't want to talk to men who are pretending to be their wives and fantasize about them having sex. I AM REAL, I'M NOT IN THE SITE TO MESS PEOPLE AROUND OR TO CONTRIBUTE TO A FANTASY THAT I'M LIVING OUT. i WANT TO MEET PEOPLE FOR FUN, FRIENDSHIP AND SEX. REAL PEOPLE FOR REAL MEETS. PLEASE SOMEONE PUT ME OUT OF MY MISERY AND GET IN TOUCH THAT FITS THE DESCRIPTION OF WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR. YOURS IN DESPERATION. BEN[/COLOR] And just so we can clear up any misunderstanding. I wont send a face pic. I will however chat on web cam so you can see me. I know this goes against the grain with some people but i have had a couple of nasty people use my face pic after sending it out. PLease if we start chatting don't after 15 messages decide that without one you don't want to chat, (decide that at first) I will meet and i am genuine, so all the face pics you get that aren't really of the per you're talking to don't amount to much when the per doesn't turn up. Sorry for ranting but apparently genuine people are really putting me off this site. Is there anyone real out there??????

My Ideal Person I'm really new and have led a sheltered existance, (at least judging from some of the pictures i'm now seeing on the site i have!) So i don't really have an ideal, why don't you teach me some ideals!

UPDATEMy ideal person has now been changed by my experiences to date. I would really like someone real. I know judging by most on here this is pushing it by it must be possible!

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
No particular place

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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