*I CHANGED MY PROFILE GENDER TO MORE ACCURATELY REFLECT WHO I AM I no longer identify with the "Transgender Umbrella". With all of the medical discoveries that were present in my childhood and throughout my transition it has become more apparent to me that I would be medically classified as Intersex (look it up). So, my gender classification would be CisVariant (pay attention AFF).* Okay...I've had some time to think about this site, my profile and what (if anything) I'm looking for. I've been an advocate for complete, open, and brave honesty for a very long time...so I'm going to do the same here. First, you need to know that I'm NOT going to give you out my real name and phone number without a GOOD NUMBER of message exchanges here on the site itself first. If you aren't patient enough to "court" me...then you don't deserve to meet me. Second, I am an IS (intersex spectrum) woman...by the strictest definition only...truth be told...I'm simply a woman through and through. What does that mean? Well...the ONLY reason I even use the moniker TS/TV/TG here on the site is that, quite frankly, there is a history in this country of ASSHOLES killing women like me because they believe us to be "men" pretending (and thereby deceiving them) to be women. DO NOT approach me with an idea in your head that I am in ANY WAY male. I am not. Everything about me is female. EVERYTHING! If the fact that I was born with a birth defect that plagued me for most of my life gives you the impression that you can treat me any differently than you would a woman who had not been born that way...YOU WOULD BE MISTAKEN. I am postoperative...and completely me...FINALLY! Now...as to what I'm here for. I'm not here for "spur-of-the-moment-hook-ups". If you reach out to me hoping that I will say within 5 minutes (or even within hours of our first contact) "Hey! Come over and fuck me!"...you would do best to move on. I'm also not here for "cyber-sex". I just...quite frankly...don't think that you could define that as anything more than masturbation. Nothing against that...it's just not for me. If I'm going to masturbate...it's not going to be while I'm trying to type provocative messages. I'm not going to pretend that I'm oblivious to the nature of this particular website. I know most everyone here is looking for the "hook-up". While I'm open to that happening...I'm looking at this as more of a dating site where I can be completely open about my desires for sex. There is a difference between desiring to be a sexual being...and being your "personal cum dump". I don't care if your feelings are hurt because I don't fawn over your overtly sexual attention. Just because you say "hi" doesn't mean that you have the right to start sending me dick pics, telling me how much you want to fuck me, talking dirty, etc. I'm going to have sex when, where, and how I want. No one will dictate to me the manner in which I decide to go after my sexual desires. IF I do eventually have sex with someone on this site the following will be the RULES: - I will not help you cheat on your spouse. PERIOD! If you want to fool around...and you are married...I will require that I meet with your partner and have a lengthy discussion about how they feel about it all. Don't try to fool me...I have an excellent radar for cheaters. If they are ok with us having sex...then I have no problems with that. What I do have problems with are lies. I won't help you in your lie. - Safe sex is a MUST. No condom...no sex! PERIOD! There are far too many easily passed-on sexual diseases out there for me to play Russian roulette with a stranger. - I will NOT HIDE! I'm very open about what I'm here for and what this site is. I left behind any kind of "shame" I may feel about my sexual desires LONG AGO. I refuse to let someone else dictate their "evil, sinful, lustful, bad, etc." beliefs about sexuality on me. Sex is great! Sex is fun! Sex is beautiful! As long as it is ALWAYS between consenting adults...I will NEVER have a problem with ANY KIND of sex someone wants to engage in. I have my own boundaries (NO bondage, NO peeing, NO number 2, NO violence, gagging, or forced anything) but those are my boundaries...and mine alone. - COVID 19 HAS A VACCINE!!! And now it's been FDA-approved! If you haven't been vaccinated...then FUCK OFF! I'm not going to engage in a relationship...dating or casual sex with you. In fact, I'm NOT EVEN GOING TO MEET YOU AT ALL! No vaccine? No me. PERIOD! I suppose that's probably it for now. Ask questions if you want/need.

My Ideal Person Anyone who is NOT a Trump supporter! You might think I'm joking...but I'm not. I figured that was best to get out there right upfront. If you want to dig deeper...well...I'm not too picky. I would like someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation...someone who has a sense of humor...along with someone who can be serious when it becomes necessary. Anything else...we cross that bridge when we come to it.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I've moved in with a few male roommates and one night we start
messing around...just kind of playing. We start pretending
be pretty sexual with each other...but then someone
messes and actually touches the other person in a very
personal place. That breaks the ice and we start touching
each other more. Eventually, we are having sex. I'm the
center of attention...but I make sure that everyone is
getting satisfied. We become so comfortable with each
other that I become the house "slut". I even become a "party
favor" during one of the Superbowl parties that my roommates
have at the house. But...it NEVER devolves into me being
treated badly. They are always as totally obsessed with
my pleasure as I am with theirs.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), A remote wilderness spot, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Participating in Erotic Photography, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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