As I said spanking (NOT beating, no implements unless you bring them) is my fantasy. My wife has said there are two things she will not do. The first is to receive a good spanking, the other is giving oral sex. She told me that she would rather I find a "Playmate" who is into those things, than to experiment with them herself. SOoooo, that is what I am looking for. Just a brief description of my fantasy. I want to roleplay. For example Father/, Uncle/niece, Teacher (Coach,Professor)/student, etc etc. My nick name (OTKugo) tells another part of the fantasy. OTK means Over The Knee, and of course "ugo" is very explanatory I think. HAHA. I want to start over your jeans or skirt or shorts, and after a little while of warm up that way, I want to lower the first layer, and spank you some more on the seat of your panties, and then finally, slowly lower your panties, and after a little rubbing, I will proceed to spank you quite a bit more on your bare bottom. After the spanking, I want to kiss you all over your by now red and hot bottom, and then lick between the cheeks, and roam a little lower (if you catch my drift), and pleasure you with my tongue while you are sitting on my bearded face, and then I would hope that you would lay down on top of me and take me in your mouth and pleasure me with your mouth and tongue. Intercourse is not a must with me. That will be left up to you.