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My Ideal Person My ideal person...well , for starters, they aren't female, or a couple. And they won't want to try on my bra and/or panties (no judgement, just not my thing). Or be able to believably call me "young lady" or "mom". Yikes!

The ability to conversate, have fun, be funny... Oh, and be relatively sane... No train wrecks allowed... Drama free is the only way to be... Of course, insanely good looking is the only craziness I'll deal with... And I adore tall men... Please understand, I'm not looking for a bunch...just one, and he will be absolutely right for me and our given circumstance.

I generally reply to i.m. messages (when the stupid thing works) if only to say hi back. If I've not got an interest, don't get all should I say as much. I'm not anyone's "meat", and will block the ignorant a holes with zero problem. I am particular, thus finding the right one will take time. Time and conversations about lots of things...build a rapport and an understanding of what one and other wants/needs. Get impatient/pushy, I just won't have serious consideration for you. Don't like it? Don't talk to me. This site doesn't dictate my behavior, contrary to what a lot of folks here seem to think. Be respectful, and you'll get it in return. Be a douche, you'll get nowhere in return.

Why is it egos get bigger when they’re challenged, which, in turn, seems iwhy the biggest douchebags are always the most Insecure? One of life's little mysteries, I guess.