Hi, I am a divorced IT Professional looking to date women around the Nottingham area. Interests are music (dancing & listening), driving, travelling, exploring British and foreign cultures. Love driving, skiing, riding motorcycles, cycling. Any walking, Nordic Walking, etc. Also on occasion, more philosophical subjects like reading (subjects e.g. astrology (especially relationship compatibility/synastry), humour, travel writing. I'm interested in men's and women's rights and how these can be reconciled. I can also just chill out with some music or film/TV and leave the heavy stuff for another time. I am told that I am, in general, a good listener, generous affectionate, warm and kind. This has proven to be my downfall on a few occasions and I was frankly, a bit gullible in the past, but am learning that particular lesson in life. I guess I'll leave it for us discover the truth :7 Thanks for reading this. I hope I got to the point fairly quickly. Cliff P.S. I did it... a profile with only one smiley and one question mark, and one LOL (which is here)

My Ideal Person A warm, and kind and affectionate lady who is also strong and doesn't have too many regrets from any previous relationships. Your face will come alive when you smile and like a good laugh from time to time.

You can also be edgy if you want, and it's important that you enjoy your own space and your own friends.

I am still friends with most of my "Exs" and hold no guilt or resentment - life is, after all, for learning. And we can still respect each other as friends.

Problems of any kind are opportunities in disguise (yes, cliche but also true). We become stronger each time one finishes.

Maybe I'm still looking for "the one" whom we only find after we've lived with them (is 10 years enough?).

On a practical basis, I have a car or motorcycle and I am willing to drive anywhere within a 40-minute drive of central Nottingham.

So, if you'd be up for meeting over a coffee or a small drink (prefer to leave meals to the second date, if it happens) then I'm around, I live in central Nottingham and can walk to the town centre in 12 minutes.

Let's respect each other.

With warmth, and hope....

Cliff

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
I'm out and about, or maybe travelling or in a club,
and I meet somebody with whom I have a near-instant spark.
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It doesn't take long till we're back at hers or
mine, some fantasy whispering has taken place, and we then
live out one and the other's fantasy (as best we can).
<br><br>
Fun times, then relaxed times, till we're all ready
again... <br><br>
Hmmm, I seem to have drifted off somewhere ;-)

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Let's discuss.

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Joanna Lumley as "Purdey"... such a sweet,
warm face! <br><br>
I think she'd have been into the same things as me...
though it might have taken some time, I'm prepared
to admit... <br><br>
I can tell her heart's in the right place, I guess. <br><br>
I just love her... <br><br>
Lauren Laverne on BBC 6Music. <br><br>
Once again, a beautiful and highly intelligent, comfortable-in-her-own-skin
woman, who is very self-assured and yet completely engaged
in what she does. <br><br>
Can be a bit risqué at times, but only once in a blue moon!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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