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Strike While the Iron is Hot!!!
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Strike While the Iron is Hot!!! You guys STILL aren't getting it!!! at the stats!! Guys outnumber the women on this site by the thousands, ( numbers don't lie-unlike most guys on here!) Again, if your interested in someone...thenby all means...message them. But, I can tell you right now... she tells you go take a hike...KEEP IN TOUCH!! That is...of course if your SERIOUS about meeting. If not, then, don't let the door you on your way !! At least for , its just how I roll. And if you should "disappear" like most do anyway, then we're done. Because I don't give second chances...nor do I chase guys. Because again, for every guy that "disappears'...there's 50 waiting appear. Its just the lay of the land guys, so, essentially, its up you. Do you want MEET women? Just wondering, because the majority of you act like you don't. You know...actions do speak louder than words. Oh...and...don't forget too..."you catch more flies with honey, than you do with vinegar" Just a little food for thought. Good luck..as usual...your gonna need it. |
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11/16/2019 9:10 am |
I agree with most of what you say but if after chatting & she stops answering when does it become badgering? I wish more ladies were like you & say take a hike.
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11/16/2019 9:33 am |
yes is true guys outnumber the men here but who lies the most i think its equal men and woman like the same
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mel is speaking the truth. idk how many times in the last week alone i have read the experiences of other women on here and the antics of some of the men that have contacted them; ghosting, not showing up when you say you're gonna show up, giving out a fake number, or just offering random stranger sex because you happen to be in town that night. wtf! fellas, if you don't want to go further just say so but don't be about games and wasting another person's time. and while you may be ok having sex with a stranger, the majority of women won't go for that because it just isn't a safe practice. christ, whatever happened to treating people the way you would want to be treated  or are manners too old-fashioned?
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11/16/2019 9:51 am |
I always speak my mind on any matter whether it be someone who chats up a storm or just chats for being bored ...i dont tolerate too much in the way of rude and disrespectful language ..there is a fine line from being crude and rude to friendly banter ...I have no problem meeting someone but i am not into hook ups and the more chats the better till we both feel comfortable with meeting ,,but i been stood up too many times and thats a no no second chance unless its finding out what the problem is....
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Fuck her right in the pussy
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Good post !! Everything you've stated is very true about this site.
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Mel, I agree with you say. I am real and serious about meeting a woman. I am from NJ and would like to get to know you and possibly meet in person. I think too that on this site, there are so many more men than men, that women are inundated by so many choices, they bounce from 1 new option to the next without ever getting to know or meet anyone. Women don't take the time to truly get acquainted and give a potential relationship to progress
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I cannot reply to mails. I am a standard member. If we become fans, then I can reply
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You guys STILL aren't getting it!!! ... No...we get it. We are just not going to waste our time. Look at the stats!! Guys outnumber the women on this site by the thousands, .... So? All any man has to be is better than other guys, and that's not difficult. And even if the pool of women is small, the pool is even smaller because the women are not all attractive. ( numbers don't lie-unlike most guys on here!) .... Men lie, because the tactic has been found to work in his favor. Again, if your interested in someone...then by all means...message them.... I'm quite sure men don't need to be told that. However, women lack the courage to message men she is interested in seeing naked. But, I can tell you right now...until she tells you go take a hike...KEEP IN TOUCH. ... No.. There is no reason to keep in touch if she won't meet him within 5 days or less, and ESPECIALLY if she is not sexually interested. And if you should "disappear" like most do anyway, then we're done. .... That's okay. Usually anyone who just disappears, that means there's nothing there to stay around for. Like if the woman isn't going to putout , then what's the point of not disappearing? Because I don't give second chances.... Well if he's disappeared, he had a good reason, so then unlikely he would return for a second chance to disappear again. ...nor do I chase guys. ... Over 38, a woman, doing some chasing of the men she's attracted to , is a much better idea than pretending she is still 22 and men are looking for her. Because again, for every guy that "disappears'...there's 50 waiting to appear. .... So what... these guys are also going to disappear if you don't putout in a timely manner. Its just the way of the land guys, so, essentially, its up to you.....We know it's up to us, we've always known this. This is why men know women are for sex, we just won't be that blatant about telling you in person. Do you want to actually MEET women? .... I'm thinking men want to actually FUCK women...... so a meeting is good, but something has to happen moving that meeting into a bed. Just wondering, because the majority of you act like you don't. .... If the majority of women acted like she doesn't want to meet [for sex], then figuring out there's no sexual interest shouldn't be that difficult. You know...actions actually do speak louder than words......Yep.. and that's why sex is the primary goal. No action? No need to stay around. Oh...and...don't forget too..."you catch more flies with honey, than you do with vinegar"..... Likewise , "You keep more men's interests getting naked for him , than wasting his time not getting naked for him". Just a little food for though - back at you..
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Melbass55 replies on 11/16/2019 8:04 pm: First of all...you must go after alot of women out of your league if thats what your experience is because I'm not like any of what you describe has happened to you. And what I'm saying is this is the majority of men that message ME first, and this is what i get. So, when you have messages by the handfuls on a daily basis like I do...then come talk to me...until then...happy hunting...and good luck. Melbass55 replies on 11/16/2019 8:06 pm: Just out of curiosity...how many women have you met from this site? ====================== First of all...you must go after alot of women out of your league ... I do not consider any woman, "Out of my league". If I'm attracted to a certain woman, I'll step up. I won't allow my time wasted. I can spot a time waster within minutes of meeting a woman. And what I'm saying is this.. is the majority of men that message ME first, and this is what i get...... Yes, I got that. And they disappear on you before you can tell them to take a hike. They disappear [one reason] because they can tell you're not sexually into them enough. [another reason] There's another woman online giving him what he's looking for right now. This is also true of women. Women lose interest [and disappear] when a better man comes along. [This is why men should not try to be friends first with women...get to the point]. So, when you have messages by the handfuls on a daily basis like I do...then come talk to me...until then...happy hunting...and good luck. .... Doesn't matter... One message or a hundred....it's all about how much time to put in, and being able to identify a time waster. As to how many women I've met from this site, [and Friendfinder]... it's not important.
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Melbass55 replies on 11/17/2019 3:48 pm: Trust me...I've tried "getting to the point"...they still run. This is what I'm trying to tell you...I have spoken to guys I'm VERY interested in meeting and do not hesitate to tell them that...yet...they still fucking disappear!!! They need to grow a set and stop acting like little girls and running away!!! Thats why I'm saying they are all talk no action assholes...cause thats what they do. Or maybe they just don't know how to fuck.... Melbass55 replies on 11/17/2019 3:50 pm: And I don't appreciate them wasting my time either...read my profile and status. ============== Trust me...I've tried "getting to the point"...they still run. This is what I'm trying to tell you...I have spoken to guys I'm VERY interested in meeting and do not hesitate to tell them that...yet...they still fucking disappear!!! ..... Okay... could be just about anything, then. They need to grow a set and stop acting like little girls ... Our culture has a bad problem with that. Thats why I'm saying they are all talk no action assholes ... Women can be like that, too. But that's a different kind of game..... the guys who are , "All talk , no action"...are probably in great numbers on here. Things you might look for in their profile to tip you off they are that kind of guy: ' They say they are gentlemen They say they can have sex for hours/all night They say they will treat you like a lady They say they are good at oral [that usually means he has E.D.] Or maybe they just don't know how to fuck.... ... naa, more likely they are financially poor. And I don't appreciate them wasting my time either...read my profile and status. .... Okay then, if that is what they see too, then these guys are doing this on purpose to piss you off.
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