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japaneseass 56F  
50231 posts
8/19/2018 8:00 pm

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𝕨𝕖𝕝𝕔𝕠𝕞𝕖 𝕥𝕠 𝕓𝕝𝕠𝕘𝕤

Hello,

My comment here will serve its purpose, but next time when you post your blog, remember to put the first comment by yourself. It will make your post to show up in the "Recently Blog Posts". Otherwise, your post will never show up anywhere else, and no one will know you have posted your blogs.

The first comment in your blog posts doesn't have to be anything special. People just put "The magic comment", "My obligatory comment", or you can really write what you wanna say, in your first comment, too.

There are some wonderful bloggers here, so be sure to check other bloggers' posts, and leave them your comments. It's a good way to leave your foot prints in their blogs, and you will get to know more people as you mingle and reciprocate!

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Brownie202 67F  
2680 posts
8/19/2018 8:21 pm

Most of my messages are from men to young and or attached, have a dick picture, are crude etc. Why should u answer? They either ignored my profile or didn't read it. Since I am not meeting at this time nobody should be writing me. Those that write are rude. Not me for not answering.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.


de_anna55 68F
25 posts
8/19/2018 8:31 pm

Flashbang295 - I always reply, even if it's to say thanks but no thanks. Some men will still try to continue the conversation and that can become annoying.

On the other hand, HasteBeatsWaltz - I know some men may seem pushy but your profile in all caps seems a little hostile. Why not turn your profile off if you do not want to communicate with anyone at the moment?

Speaking for myself, it's nice to have a choice of potential partners and it's common courtesy to respond to a message even if they are too young or too far away.


superbjversion2 68F  
24388 posts
8/19/2018 8:35 pm

I try to answer all my emails but what am I supposed to say to someone who only writes "Hello" and nothing else?

Opportunity may knock only once, but temptation bangs on the door forever!


Yours_4A_knight 59M

8/19/2018 10:34 pm

My impression is that unless something really stands out in the thumbnail of the message you send when a woman looks over the far too many that she gets she is just going to delete it unopened.

Now, this might be just the small number of women that I spoke to here in Northwest Ohio at a meet and greet, so everyone experiences might be different.

My response rate for a meaningful greeting, mentioning something from their profile if there is very much there at all, is less than 1 out of 20, all of those being of the "no thank you" variety. Though to be honest I might be setting myself up for failure in that I actually only "approach" women I feel I could really have some attraction to and whose profile doesn't automatically rule me out. So really I don't write many.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.


MissCinders 58F
1533 posts
8/20/2018 9:33 am

I believe that "no response is a response." If I get a message from a man that is in another state/country whats the point of responding? That will just lead to more questions and "why this, why that". If a man is a gold member then he should have read my profile. Based on my preferences should be a clear indication of what to do next.

Same goes for the 20 somethings. Why even say "no or not interested"? Its never going to happen.

I just ignore and hopefully they go a way without having to block them. Sometimes that is necessary as well. I don't feel bad about it nor do I think its rude or crude. People need to act like the adults they claim to be.


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